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In the old days of marriage by capture, a maiden was guarded by her family to prevent seizure. In later years, this drama was enacted as a sort of game at country weddings. The bridegroom, brightly attired, coming for his bride, was confronted by a bevy of maidens all dressed exactly alike. His part of the game was to detect his true love, “forsaking all others” and carry her away to the church. As recently as Victorian times, brides’ maidens ( hence the term bridesmaids) often wore white dresses and even short bridal veils to look like brides themselves. The best friend was designated first bridesmaid. Today we use the terms Maid and/or Matron of Honor.
Modern adaptations of bridesmaid dresses have emerged from this tradition. Today’s maids should wear gowns that complement the bride’s gown in style, formality and color.
We suggest that the bride do some preliminary shopping, choosing styles, fabrics and colors. Then ask the maid of honor to help make the final decision. Most bridal parties have many different body types and sizes, so please keep this in mind when selecting your styles. Some brides will select one style dress for the Maid of Honor, and the rest of bridesmaids will wear a dress of a different style. Sometimes, the Maid of Honor will wear a different color from the rest of the bridesmaids. This decision is up to the Bride.
One thing to remember is that you will all be in photos together and you will have these photos and videos the rest of your life, so choose your colors carefully, and I would recommend not too many colors as it detracts the focus of the picture away from the bride. And it truly is the BRIDE’s day! We recommend that you keep your attendants informed of your plans, but be careful not to demand too much. Please stop in and talk over your plans and ideas for attendants. Our consultants can give you lots of ideas!
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Jan Ferracuti
BRIDAL ELEGANCE BRIDAL ELEGANCE
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